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i love people who… new year fitness edition

January 4, 2016

The first week of January is either famous or infamous for being the High Holiday for Fitness worshipers. I don’t mind. Good intentions have a bad reputation, really. Let’s celebrate all the ways we silly humans find to display them.

zombie run
Me in a soapy moment at the Luther, Oklahoma Zombie 5K obstacle course, six days after the 2014 OKC marathon. The start line of this race has a great story.

I love people who decide the day after Halloween to lose some weight, but they are going to first fully enjoy the holidays, okay? Okay.

I also love people who are blissfully unaware of their wild caloric abandon until, somewhere around January fifth, nothing fits quite right or they start seeing candid photos of themselves posted to Facebook by fellow holiday revelers. (Gulp.)

I love people who never need to lose weight and can eat anything they want because their bodies just are not affected by toffee-crusted fudge cake or endless bags of magical tortilla chips. 

I love people who actually enjoy feasting on gorgeous salads and raw vegetables and don’t see this as a healthy habit, just a delicious one.

I truly admire people who nearly gag at the thought of fresh veggies but swallow a green pile of them once in a while, just because their wives say to.

I love people who buy gym memberships and new workout clothes in January.

Better yet, I love people who asked for these things for Christmas.

Hats off to everyone who works up a sweat in actual not-at-all-trendy sweat clothes. FROM THE THRIFT SHOP. (It is possible.)

Fitness gadget wearers are fabulous. 

Smoothie making fools are wonderful.

Anyone who chooses a garden variety 30-day challenge (abs, glutes, running streak, etc), prints it off and tapes it to the fridge, then actually DOES the exercises on it might not be fully human.

Thanks anyway to all my Facebook friends who share these 30-day challenges and make me think about doing them even though neither of us probably will.

I love people who keep their fitness goals close to the vest, exercising privately at home, eating in moderation without posting any photos to Instagram.

I definitely groove folks who overshare their sweat sessions, reaching wildly out into the universe for PR’s, documenting in excruciating detail every protein-heavy, clean-carb having meal so I can learn from their efforts, or at least be inspired by them.

I love early morning worker-outers.

I love full-time office dwellers who grab lunchtime miles or late night weight routines.

I love mommies who jog with strollers and daddies who swim at the YMCA while their toddlers enjoy some daycare fun.

I love adults who coach kids’ sports teams and teenagers who inspire their middle aged moms to lace up. (Hi Joc!!)

Paleo eaters are cool. So are vegetarians and pescatarians and maybe even vegans. Maybe.

Folks who swear by a sunrise cup of hot lemon water with cayenne and honey make me smile. Coffee guzzlers are my tribe. Water purists are the best of the best of the best SIR!

But if you have something mean to say about diet soda, just… Don’t.

If you lift weights before running, you are the bomb dot com.

If you run first, then use whatever energy you saved for a few stretches or foam rolling, you are alright by me.

If you have the best intentions in January but falter with Valentine’s Day decadence and late winter hibernation, then start fresh again just in time for Spring Break bikini season, then get distracted by whatever keeps you busy in April and May, then hit it fast and furious again before summer, well, you might be hurting yourself and need a hug. But you are still awesome.

If, on the other hand, you live steady and eat mindfully, exercise most days of most weeks, challenge yourself but stay in a happy zone, remember your beauty, and also focus on beautiful things other than your outer physical self, then you have attained a level of self awareness that most people in our culture can scarcely imagine. And you are my new role model.

In the same way that a balanced approach to health and wellness leads to greater self-awareness and sustained well-being, physical therapy can be a vital tool in supporting that journey. When life’s challenges or distractions leave you feeling off track, it’s important to remember that taking care of your body isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about sustaining long-term health and functionality.

That’s where physical therapy comes in, offering a structured way to heal, strengthen, and prevent injury. With dedicated therapists and targeted programs, patients can regain mobility, improve strength, and address any pain or discomfort that may be holding them back from living their best life. By incorporating strength therapy into your routine, you’re not only treating issues that arise but building a foundation for lasting wellness that helps you stay balanced, strong, and active for years to come.

Happy New Year, friends!! Be well. Set those crazy goals and chase after them. Break personal records. Feel amazing. Get satisfied with your efforts, month after month. But please have fun doing it. Please love yourself through the process and always remember that you are more than the sum of your diet and exercise achievements.

Thank you Christy. 
XOXOXOXO

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best of 2015, photos & posts

December 31, 2015

The last day of the calendar year. And what a year it has been at the farm! Good, bad, ugly, thrilling, beautiful, merciful, scary, romantic, progressive, all of it. Mostly, things at the W are just plain amazing. I count among our millions of blessings even the heartache, because we know that heartache grows our faith, and faith today carries us to unbridled joy tomorrow.

Also, life here is fun.

Okay. Time to recap.

I sure enjoyed seeing which were my top nine photos on Instagram this past year. Have you done this yet with your feed? 

2015 top 9 ig photos

I see garden color, buffalo moments, mile 23 at last April’s marathon (known as The Crying Games), Meh the sweetest llama ever, and a long view of Chanta through some old fashioned morning glory vines. Also graduation day for the Master Gardener program. All good stuff for which I am super grateful.

Here are my five most visited blog posts from 2015:

  1. Elizabeth’s Garden Tour Oh Elizabeth. I am looking forward to seeing what changes you have made since the ice storm.
  2. Dreams Come True Indeed they do, friends. Don’t ever stop dreaming. And please help each other fuel your prayers with imagination. It matters.
  3. Day for the Birds  Fun fun fun! xoxo Is visiting Mrs. Robinson’s class going to be a yearly ritual? I hope so.
  4. Fearless I think this was actually from the previous January, haha, but being fearless is always a good idea, right?
  5. Marathon Monday, the Pretzel Story Training has commenced for April 2016, and I am already worried about what new ways I will find to humiliate myself this go ’round.

Last New Year’s Eve I posted this video for Mama Kat and intended to do more of these. It was fun! But I don’t think I ever did more. I blame her and her and her perfect makeup. : ) Maybe 2016 will have more vlogging. Check out yesterday’s post if you want to watch my one and only 2015 vlog.

What else could be on tap for the New Year? I wrote about that a tiny bit earlier this week. This year I am more of a mind to set goals than make resolutions. Life is on so many good paths that I just want more time and energy to explore those paths. I want longer days. Maybe my word for this coming year is going to be more. Call me greedy.

an outtake from our spontaneous family portrait day
an outtake from our spontaneous family portrait day

Handsome and I certainly wish you and our people a celebratory end of the calendar year. We wish you a new year full of health, good fortune, adventure, peace, and all the magic you crave. 

Carpe Annum!!
XOXOXOXO

Happy New Year Mama Kat writers!!

I hope you leave a little note so I can find each of you.

Thanks for visiting, as always.

xoxoxo ~marie

 

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reading plan 2016

December 28, 2015

How many books could you read in a year, and still keep your life in balance? What alchemy of books would you choose, to both challenge and comfort your mind and nourish your spirit as well as season your own writing? These are good questions to ask at the end of December, knowing that several weeks of cold weather and indoor cuddling lie ahead.

The owner of local book store Full Circle Books is known to read at least four brand new titles each week, while still running a successful business. My friend Melissa holds down a full time job, takes care of her parents and dogs, stays active socially, and last year read 85 books. Wow! I don’t know what the average is, but that sounds high.

This coming year I will pull away from Dinner Club With a Reading Problem and instead spend time reading my own lists of titles at my pwn pace. I am looking again at my “Want to Read” shelf on Goodreads to see what has slipped my memory. Plenty, to answer that question in a word. 289 books teasing my imagination, and that list is nowhere near complete.

So how to strategize? Here is my plan for the New Year:

2016 book plan BLUE

Twelve months, 36 books. That should be totally achievable and leave space for spontaneous finds along the way.

Four Difficult Books:
I am thinking along the lines of Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace. One of these every quarter is fair, right? Maybe Don Quixote will happen after all. Not that the material of either of these is difficult; but the reading is awfully tedious. Also in the “difficult” category, though, would be The Shack by William Young. I read about 80% of it several years ago and stopped because of what was happening in my life at that time. Maybe now I can read it with wiser eyes, a stronger heart.

One Fiction Per Month: Easy-peasy. Talented authors abound. Fiction is what I want to write myself soon, so overdosing on a variety of styles is good. Plus so much fun.

One Non-Fiction Per Month: Lots of great choices out there. I love my friend Jennifer’s idea of going on a memoir safari and might diverge a bit on this theme. There are also, of course, so many great books out there on the creative process, lots of history, inspirational stuff, and on and on. Twelve non-fiction pieces should be almost automatic.

Something Translated to English: I recently listened to a Ted talk by Ann Morgan, who decided to expand her literary repertoire by spending a full year reading books from all around the globe, nothing written by British or North American authors. Totally inspirational. Check out her related blog A Year of Reading the World. With the exception of the first part of Don Quixote and a smattering of Greek mythology, I am pretty sure I have only read English literature, always. This shows great room for improvement.

Best Seller: I just want to hip and stylish, is that so wrong?

Rare Bird Lit: This is the publishing house in California where my friend Julia works. She has generously sent me a stack of books by several of her authors, and I have enjoyed every single one I have read so far, some more than others. This year I will dig into that stack again. 

New to Me Classic: It’s embarrassing how many widely accepted classics are foreign to me. Need to fix this.

Classic Re-Read: I can’t stop thinking of Nathaniel Hawthorne for some reason. Maybe because our perspective changes so much over time, and my tenth grade prejudices while reading The Scarlet Letter must surely have evolved by now. Gotta find out. No promises, though; another classic encore may suddenly seem way more important.

Summertime Guilty Pleasures: Three months of deck living calls for at least three guilty pleasure reads. Not sad about this plan.

f5f books lace

Okay, this is where my literary appetite is as of late December. I love the look and feel of a fresh, clean calendar, and knowing I have a year to explore this many different kinds of books is very exciting. What are your literary goals for 2016? Are you on Goodreads? I’d love to stalk you there.

“A book is like a garden carried in the pocket.”
~Chinese proverb
XOXOXOXO

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My Word for 2013: STRENGTH

January 3, 2013

   Happy New Year friends! Happy first Thursday of the fresh, clean, brand spanking  new set of months and moments! Happy cold, frosty morning (if you are in Oklahoma) and Happy Another Chance to Try Big Things and Chart New Territory. Do you feel the energy? Much more than caffeine, I feel it. I feel the pulsing, sparkling sense of possibility and hope all around me.

I’m a spring and summer person for sure, 
but this year is the farthest I have ever felt from a “winter of discontent.”
My heart is so full, my mind is so stimulated,
and my spirit is so encouraged… that where dormancy is evident,
I see only possibility, only life building up her wonderful stores.

   My personal resolutions are too many to count, and since last year I fell into the tantalizing habit of calling them reVolutions, they evolve anyway according to need and passion. So to mark the first of the year, and as an homage to the deep and communal love we all share for words, my word of the year is…

STRENGTH.

   Strength, in so many manifestations.

   Strength of body, because in two weeks I begin training in earnest for my first half marathon, which will happen in late April.

   Strength of spirit, as I flex repeatedly against that Worry Door and face new challenges and pains resolutely.

   Strength in finances, domestic pursuits, and daily goal tending. Strength to keep my promises. Strength to maximize the potential of our fabulous little book club.

   Strength to bend but not break… Strength to grow and bear fruit… Strength to admit my faults and overcome them. Strength to trust more fully, love more freely, and give of my true self (not my competitive, imagined self) more generously. Strength to hang on tight and let go gently, and strength to know when to do each.

   The possibilities for 2013 are endless!! I shudder almost to articulate them, though, because the year is so young I still have that waking sensation you get between dreaming and living when you can still enjoy the vision but dare not focus too hard on it, or it evaporates.

   Thank you to everyone who has been nibbling around this digital Lazy W this past year! I appreciate all of the comments, the emails, and funny, smart, touching interactions. Sometimes I cannot believe how many wonderful people I have met “here.” Thanks to those of you who have visited the dirt and hooves Lazy W this year too, and helped Handsome and me make so many fun memories. Our home is richer for the time spent with you. Also, thanks to those of you sharing your own wonderful stories. I treasure these connections so much.

   So, cheers to the close of a rich, wonderful year! And cheers to the startlingly gorgeous beginning of a new one! Love to you all.

“Only those who risk going too far
Can ever possibly find out how far one can go.”
~T.S. Elliott
xoxoxoxo 


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A hobby farming, book reading, coffee drinking, romance having, miles running girl in Oklahoma. Soaking up the particular beauty of every day. Blogging on the side. Welcome to the Lazy W!

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