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first literary saturday post of 2016

January 9, 2016

Happy Literary Saturday, friends! On this first such installment of 2016 I have a brief book review to share as well as a small collection of internet offerings from this past week. Hopefully you groove some of it. As always please share in comments what treasures you have found to read lately.

Cold Fear by Rick Mofina: OH MY GOSH THIS WAS GOOD! 5/5 stars from me. Highly recommend. I gobbled up this little feast believing it to be fiction then discovered it’s actually a piece of true crime, perhaps interpreted a bit but still based on a true story. (I adore true crime and am not ashamed.) Cold Fear is a missing persons story set in the Rocky Mountains and deals with all kinds of intense family dynamics. So gripping. As for the writing, imagine a thick braid. But not just an ordinary braid or even an elegant French braid; imagine one of those intricate fishtail braids you see in little girls’ hair on Pinterest. Skinny, well woven, metallic strands pulled from opposing directions at just the right moment so that this incredible masterpiece if eventually finished, and every detail comes from somewhere. Nothing is wasted. Everything connects. I can’t say anything more!! Go read this book under a heavy blanket with a flashlight and call me when you’re done. You can borrow my dog if you’re scared.

cold fear book cover

Lora the Crazy Running Girl is quitting soda, and she offers some smart strategies in this article. Also, I am on a personal mission to convince her to come run the OKC Memorial Marathon “with” me in April, and by “with” of course I just mean “also,” haha, because she is quite swift. Add some positive peer pressure, okay?

12 Foods Happy People Eat. I am basically a very happy person, and I eat plenty. I approve of this list. Only the maca root is unfamiliar to me, though I have heard recently from a friend who swears by it.

Once again Sandy the Reluctant Entertainer shares in one post food for the body and food for the soul. I cannot WAIT to try this turkey lasagna soup, and her wisdom about hospitality in the midst of big changes is very well received. As Handsome and I squint our eyes and try to peer into the future through all this foggy turnpike business, it’s nice to remember that Love and friendship will follow us anywhere. We just have to keep opening our doors.

How about 31 of the most beautiful sentences in literature? I know. So good. I salivate over well crafted sentences. 

dandelion fluff

 

One of this world’s sweetest blogging couples is having their first baby!!! Sincerest congratulations to Ashley and Brent over at Domestic Fashionista. Since they are far away on the west coast, let’s figure out how to throw them an internet baby shower.

Refunk My Junk: I am a big fan of everything Alison does, and this newest coffee table project is no exception. So fresh and pretty! Check out her unorthodox methods and drool over all that springtime living room color. She has me fully cured of all things Christmas. If you are local, you may want to know that she is hosting a big junk sale next weekend. 

The next thing cracked open from my book shelf is My Life On the Run by Bart Yasso. I’ve read passages from it these past several months since meeting him at the race in Lawton, but it warrants a cover-to-cover examination as marathon training kicks off. I have already found myself laughing out loud. Really good read, even if running is not your thing. 

Klaus my most excellent reading buddy...xoxo
Klaus my most excellent reading buddy…xoxo

Okay. Now I am off to play in the fresh snow and get some exercise. We have dinner plans tonight with two of the funnest couples we know, then perhaps a Making of a Murderer binge watch. Have your tried it yet? No spoilers please!

Your turn! Tell me stuff. Tell me all the reading things. Thanks for stopping in, friends. Enjoy your Saturday!

“There is a privacy about it which no other season gives you….
In spring, summer and fall people sort of have an open season on each other;
only in the winter, in the country, can you have longer, quiet stretches
when you can savor belonging to yourself.
~Ruth Stout
XOXOXOXO

 

 

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super short video book review of hard bite

January 6, 2016

Happy Wednesday! If you have approximately 2 minutes and 48 seconds to watch a little video, you might enjoy a purely frivolous book review by Yours Truly. I promise there are no sudden loud noises. Not even a parrot scream, which is a miracle straight from Heaven.

The book is Hard Bite by Anonymous, and it is a surprising little treasure I snagged for free from that email service Book Bub. Something I forgot to mention in my video down there is that THIS BOOK IS NOT FOR CHILDREN, haha, like not even close. So, know that.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyGHBZirWSU

I am linking up again with the always entertaining Kat Bouska. When I clicked over to see what video she has for us today, I was stunned to see that she is trying to make me famous. I mean, even more famous than I already am to my dog.

 

klaus me run

Speaking of that, her baby-swaddling technique looks pretty legit. But I tried that with my 85 pound German Shepherd and the results were less graceful. I will try Taylor Swift and see if that helps.

Happy reading! What is on your nightstand this week?

If you are lucky enough to have a pet monkey, please don’t train it to kill people.

The End.

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i love people who… new year fitness edition

January 4, 2016

The first week of January is either famous or infamous for being the High Holiday for Fitness worshipers. I don’t mind. Good intentions have a bad reputation, really. Let’s celebrate all the ways we silly humans find to display them.

zombie run
Me in a soapy moment at the Luther, Oklahoma Zombie 5K obstacle course, six days after the 2014 OKC marathon. The start line of this race has a great story.

I love people who decide the day after Halloween to lose some weight, but they are going to first fully enjoy the holidays, okay? Okay.

I also love people who are blissfully unaware of their wild caloric abandon until, somewhere around January fifth, nothing fits quite right or they start seeing candid photos of themselves posted to Facebook by fellow holiday revelers. (Gulp.)

I love people who never need to lose weight and can eat anything they want because their bodies just are not affected by toffee-crusted fudge cake or endless bags of magical tortilla chips. 

I love people who actually enjoy feasting on gorgeous salads and raw vegetables and don’t see this as a healthy habit, just a delicious one.

I truly admire people who nearly gag at the thought of fresh veggies but swallow a green pile of them once in a while, just because their wives say to.

I love people who buy gym memberships and new workout clothes in January.

Better yet, I love people who asked for these things for Christmas.

Hats off to everyone who works up a sweat in actual not-at-all-trendy sweat clothes. FROM THE THRIFT SHOP. (It is possible.)

Fitness gadget wearers are fabulous. 

Smoothie making fools are wonderful.

Anyone who chooses a garden variety 30-day challenge (abs, glutes, running streak, etc), prints it off and tapes it to the fridge, then actually DOES the exercises on it might not be fully human.

Thanks anyway to all my Facebook friends who share these 30-day challenges and make me think about doing them even though neither of us probably will.

I love people who keep their fitness goals close to the vest, exercising privately at home, eating in moderation without posting any photos to Instagram.

I definitely groove folks who overshare their sweat sessions, reaching wildly out into the universe for PR’s, documenting in excruciating detail every protein-heavy, clean-carb having meal so I can learn from their efforts, or at least be inspired by them.

I love early morning worker-outers.

I love full-time office dwellers who grab lunchtime miles or late night weight routines.

I love mommies who jog with strollers and daddies who swim at the YMCA while their toddlers enjoy some daycare fun.

I love adults who coach kids’ sports teams and teenagers who inspire their middle aged moms to lace up. (Hi Joc!!)

Paleo eaters are cool. So are vegetarians and pescatarians and maybe even vegans. Maybe.

Folks who swear by a sunrise cup of hot lemon water with cayenne and honey make me smile. Coffee guzzlers are my tribe. Water purists are the best of the best of the best SIR!

But if you have something mean to say about diet soda, just… Don’t.

If you lift weights before running, you are the bomb dot com.

If you run first, then use whatever energy you saved for a few stretches or foam rolling, you are alright by me.

If you have the best intentions in January but falter with Valentine’s Day decadence and late winter hibernation, then start fresh again just in time for Spring Break bikini season, then get distracted by whatever keeps you busy in April and May, then hit it fast and furious again before summer, well, you might be hurting yourself and need a hug. But you are still awesome.

If, on the other hand, you live steady and eat mindfully, exercise most days of most weeks, challenge yourself but stay in a happy zone, remember your beauty, and also focus on beautiful things other than your outer physical self, then you have attained a level of self awareness that most people in our culture can scarcely imagine. And you are my new role model.

In the same way that a balanced approach to health and wellness leads to greater self-awareness and sustained well-being, physical therapy can be a vital tool in supporting that journey. When life’s challenges or distractions leave you feeling off track, it’s important to remember that taking care of your body isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about sustaining long-term health and functionality.

That’s where physical therapy comes in, offering a structured way to heal, strengthen, and prevent injury. With dedicated therapists and targeted programs, patients can regain mobility, improve strength, and address any pain or discomfort that may be holding them back from living their best life. By incorporating strength therapy into your routine, you’re not only treating issues that arise but building a foundation for lasting wellness that helps you stay balanced, strong, and active for years to come.

Happy New Year, friends!! Be well. Set those crazy goals and chase after them. Break personal records. Feel amazing. Get satisfied with your efforts, month after month. But please have fun doing it. Please love yourself through the process and always remember that you are more than the sum of your diet and exercise achievements.

Thank you Christy. 
XOXOXOXO

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best of 2015, photos & posts

December 31, 2015

The last day of the calendar year. And what a year it has been at the farm! Good, bad, ugly, thrilling, beautiful, merciful, scary, romantic, progressive, all of it. Mostly, things at the W are just plain amazing. I count among our millions of blessings even the heartache, because we know that heartache grows our faith, and faith today carries us to unbridled joy tomorrow.

Also, life here is fun.

Okay. Time to recap.

I sure enjoyed seeing which were my top nine photos on Instagram this past year. Have you done this yet with your feed? 

2015 top 9 ig photos

I see garden color, buffalo moments, mile 23 at last April’s marathon (known as The Crying Games), Meh the sweetest llama ever, and a long view of Chanta through some old fashioned morning glory vines. Also graduation day for the Master Gardener program. All good stuff for which I am super grateful.

Here are my five most visited blog posts from 2015:

  1. Elizabeth’s Garden Tour Oh Elizabeth. I am looking forward to seeing what changes you have made since the ice storm.
  2. Dreams Come True Indeed they do, friends. Don’t ever stop dreaming. And please help each other fuel your prayers with imagination. It matters.
  3. Day for the Birds  Fun fun fun! xoxo Is visiting Mrs. Robinson’s class going to be a yearly ritual? I hope so.
  4. Fearless I think this was actually from the previous January, haha, but being fearless is always a good idea, right?
  5. Marathon Monday, the Pretzel Story Training has commenced for April 2016, and I am already worried about what new ways I will find to humiliate myself this go ’round.

Last New Year’s Eve I posted this video for Mama Kat and intended to do more of these. It was fun! But I don’t think I ever did more. I blame her and her and her perfect makeup. : ) Maybe 2016 will have more vlogging. Check out yesterday’s post if you want to watch my one and only 2015 vlog.

What else could be on tap for the New Year? I wrote about that a tiny bit earlier this week. This year I am more of a mind to set goals than make resolutions. Life is on so many good paths that I just want more time and energy to explore those paths. I want longer days. Maybe my word for this coming year is going to be more. Call me greedy.

an outtake from our spontaneous family portrait day
an outtake from our spontaneous family portrait day

Handsome and I certainly wish you and our people a celebratory end of the calendar year. We wish you a new year full of health, good fortune, adventure, peace, and all the magic you crave. 

Carpe Annum!!
XOXOXOXO

Happy New Year Mama Kat writers!!

I hope you leave a little note so I can find each of you.

Thanks for visiting, as always.

xoxoxo ~marie

 

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vlogging for mama kat, looking ahead to 2016

December 31, 2015

Six minutes. Ten questions. Infinite dorkiness. Welcome to the New Year’s Eve (-ish) Vlogging response, Lazy W style.

This is harder than it looks and also more fun. I worked really hard on being hilarious so I hope you guys laugh so hard you have cookies and milk coming out of your noses, but let’s be laughing WITH ME, ok? Not AT ME. Okay.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muG9VtAk14Y#action=share

Happy New Year to Kat Bouska in particular! Big hugs from Oklahoma!

XOXOXOXO

 

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Hi! I’m Marie. This is the Lazy W.

A hobby farming, book reading, coffee drinking, romance having, miles running girl in Oklahoma. Soaking up the particular beauty of every day. Blogging on the side. Welcome to the Lazy W!

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