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whistling past the graveyard (book review)

June 6, 2015

Friends, I have been wanting to tell you about this book for several weeks but just keep putting it off because the story washed over me in such a wonderful way that I didn’t want to rush through my review of it. Whew! I barely feel like I can relay to you how beautiful and impactful it is. I really want you to read it, ok? And I really think you should have your kids read it, depending on their ages. Encourage your family and friends to read it. Suggest it to the educators in your life. Make sure you purchase a copy; don’t just borrow one. You’ll want this around for years to come, and I bet you’ll have the urge to lovingly mark it up, too.

Okay. Let’s begin.

The book that has me so riled up is Whistling Past the Graveyard by Susan Crandall. 

WPTG book cover goodreads

Our famous little Oklahoma book club devoured and discussed this way back in March. We met here at the farm late that month and had a fun evening together eating great food, loving on each other, and talking over what we all agreed is destined to become a modern American classic.

The buffet table just before we started loading it with edible treasures.
The buffet table just before we started loading it with edible treasures.
My first plate heavy with said edible treasures. We earn our moniker rightly.
My first plate heavy with said edible treasures. We earn our moniker rightly.
My smart, hilarious, beautiful, long time friend Steph and me. You may recall Steph is our token non-reader, but she has been reading! The world is off its axis!
My smart, hilarious, beautiful, long time friend Steph and me. You may recall Steph is our token non-reader, but she has actually been reading! The world is off its axis!
Melissa with Fancy Louise the chicken and Chanta the horse, who was really greedy for her affection that night. So fun!
Melissa with Fancy Louise the cuddly hen and Chanta the cuddly horse, who was really greedy for Melissa’s affection that night. So fun!

Dinner Club With a Reading Problem always has a memorable time together. Y’all know that by now. But this book, assigned to the group by Seri after she randomly spotted it one day at Target, really got our attention.

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The story is set in 1963 in the Deep South. It follows a precocious, not always pleasant, but in the end very lovable little girl and the adults closely attached to her life. Together they experience normal childhood stuff plus one grand (and sad) adventure as well as fascinating cultural scenes from that region at that time and the racially charged tension that often occupied it.

Whistling Past the Graveyard holds its own with books like The Help and To Kill a Mockingbird, both of which our book club has read and discussed. We have also read Seven Days in May by beloved Oklahoma author Jen Luitweiler, another bit of historical fiction about social turbulence, racially charged issues, cultural differences, and the like. So it’s fair to say we have a good base for tackling these themes. This newest title not only added to our repertoire; it also deepened our conversations. A lot. Something about the characters Crandall wrote and the way they are all a mix of good and bad, whether black or white or rich or poor, something about that peeled away even more layers. Our discussion that night was fascinating and too short. We all thought this book warranted more talk time.

wptg quote art

For all the painful, universal broad strokes in a story like this, there is also a deep ocean of personal love for the reader to swim in. Personal stories are where the big stories really happen anyway, right? These pages are loaded with believable moments when you feel like you are right there in the characters’ faces. Lots of tangible affection and terribly acute heartache, too. I could share beautiful quotes like this from throughout the book, but I just really want you to read it for yourself. I will personally be enjoying it again and again, just like Grapes of Wrath. It has a classic, better-every-time-you-read-it sort of magic. Flipping through my dog-eared pages I already miss the fabric of the story, its thick, soft, patchwork-quilt quality, the very real characters and emotion Crandall conjured up. The spiritual lessons. Everything! Just wonderful, nourishing, entertaining stuff from the very first page to the last.

By the way, this book is a mere 308 pages, and the story moves fluidly. Smoothly. You should be able to tuck it in between more laborious titles with ease, and I suspect it will refresh you deeply. Spoiler Alert: You will probably cry at some point, but don’t give up and stop reading. Promise me you will finish to the end.

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Okay, that’s it for now! Have you read Whistling Past the Graveyard? If so, what did you think? If not, are you now tempted to grab it and gobble it up this weekend? Tell me everything.

“Sometimes laughin’ is all a body can do, child.
It’s laugh or lose your mind.”
~Susan Crandall Whistling Past the Graveyard
XOXOXOXO

 

 

 

 

 

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Filed Under: book club, book reviews, Dinner Club With a Reading Problem, memoriesTagged: book reviews, Susan Crandall, Whistling Past the Graveyard

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  1. Seri says

    June 6, 2015 at 2:58 pm

    I am so glad this book caught my eye at Target that day. I loved it. The way Eula’s quilt reminded me of Joseph’s Coat of Many Colors, as I read about how it was made and the stories her momma told, I could hear Dolly Partons song in my head. I don’t think the story could have had a different main character. Her innocent ignorance is what makes the story. As Marie said we could have a many more discussions on this book, all the nooks and crannys that is carries you to. Side note we as a book club think that if this is made into a movie that Yvette Nicole Brown should play Miss Cyrena!!!

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    • thelazyw says

      June 9, 2015 at 10:56 am

      Yes, the memories quilt, I am so glad you mentioned that! And I totally agree about the main character… The story is filled with complex personalities but the little girl was just perfect as a touchstone, the center of the big wheel. Thanks for an excellent book assignment, Seri!!

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  2. Stacey says

    June 15, 2015 at 6:47 pm

    I’m so excited to find your thoughts on this book because I’m reading it right now! From the very first paragraph I was hooked. All the similes and metaphors just add so much to this story and the characters are wonderful. I’m going to be telling everyone about this book also.

    By the way, your table for book club looks like so much fun. I’m just starting in a book club this month and I’m so excited. 🙂

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    • thelazyw says

      June 18, 2015 at 2:42 pm

      Hi Stacey! yes, so beautifully written. A tapestry. I can’t wait to hear what you think of the ending.
      Hey I will be in touch with you!! Book club is perhaps one of the most precious things in my life right now. I would love to chat more with you about it! Thanks for visiting. : ))

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  3. Julie says

    June 18, 2015 at 3:55 pm

    Okay, I am putting this on our Eat, Read & Be Yappy book club reading list. It sounds great! Great review by the way. Don’t read mine and expect them to be near as good as yours. 🙂

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